Start with the right role
Family support, peer support, and treatment can work together. SAMHSA family coping resources.
They do different jobs, however.
Support can help someone reach care. Treatment provides professional assessment and care. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
This guide helps you compare roles before you call a program.
Compare the three kinds of help
| Kind of help | Main role | Question to ask |
|---|---|---|
| Family support | Conversation, practical help, and connection to care | What help feels safe and useful? |
| Peer support | Shared experience and social support | Who leads this group or service? |
| Professional treatment | Assessment, care, and a treatment plan | Who will assess the person? |
The table is a guide, not a ranking.
A clinician must decide what care a person needs.
Family support can open the door
SAMHSA says families can connect loved ones with treatment and other resources. SAMHSA family coping resources.
Start during a calm moment.
Name what you noticed without blame.
Ask whether the person wants help finding options. SAMHSA family support guide.
Do not promise a result that no program can promise.
Treatment adds clinical care
Professional treatment can assess substance use and related health needs. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
Treatment may include counseling, medicine, or both. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
The exact plan depends on the person and the assessment. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
Detox alone is not the same as a full treatment plan. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
Peer support adds shared experience
Peer groups offer social support from people with recovery experience. NIDA: Treatment.
They are not a substitute for medical treatment. NIDA: Treatment and Recovery.
Ask whether the group is led by peers, clinicians, or both.
Ask if meetings are online, in person, or both.
Choose a group where the person feels safe.
Set safe family boundaries
Support does not mean taking over every decision.
SAMHSA advises providers to let the person define their family. SAMHSA TIP 39 family therapy guidance.
The person should also decide who joins treatment discussions. SAMHSA TIP 39 family therapy guidance.
Ask the program how it handles privacy and written permission. SAMHSA TIP 39 family therapy guidance.
If home feels unsafe, contact a clinician or emergency service.
Plan before you call
| Topic | Ask the program |
|---|---|
| Assessment | Who meets with the person first? |
| Services | What care happens after admission? |
| Family | Can family join, and what permission is needed? |
| Peer support | Are peer groups part of the plan? |
| Safety | What happens if symptoms become urgent? |
| Cost | What does insurance cover, and what might we owe? |
Write down the answers before choosing a program.
Ask for the program name, address, phone number, and after-hours plan.
Include family when the person agrees
SAMHSA says family therapy and counseling can support the whole family. SAMHSA family coping resources.
Ask what family sessions cover.
Ask who leads them and how privacy works.
A person can ask the program to explain its family rules.
Family members also need support for their own health. SAMHSA family coping resources.
Know when to get urgent help
Call 911 or go to an emergency room for danger or a medical emergency. SAMHSA crisis support.
Call or text 988 if someone is in crisis. SAMHSA crisis support.
Do not wait for an admission call when there is immediate danger.
SAMHSA's National Helpline offers free, confidential treatment referrals. SAMHSA National Helpline.
Find treatment information
FindTreatment.gov helps people locate treatment facilities and providers. FindTreatment.gov.
SAMHSA's National Helpline is 1-800-662-HELP (4357). SAMHSA National Helpline.
Use a listing as a starting point, then confirm details with the program.
Our live directory count
This table shows a number from our own database. It is read when the page loads.
| Measure | Live count |
|---|---|
| Published facilities | 19,605 |
Source file: asb_facility_stats_public.
Source URL: the live aSoberBed stats endpoint. https://asoberbed.com/api/stats.
Extraction date: September 16, 2026.
Record count: 19,605 published facilities at page load.
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